“Learning to love and be loved is, in effect, about learning to tune in to our emotions so that we know what we need from a partner and expressing those desires openly, in a way that evokes sympathy and support from him or her.” ~ Dr. Sue Johnson
WORKING WITH ADHD-IMPACTED RELATIONSHIPS THROUGH THE EMOTIONALLY FOCUSED THERAPY (EFT) LENS
DATE/TIME
THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 8th & FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 9th 2022
9:00AM - 1:30PM U.S. Eastern Time both days
THIS IS A LIVE ONLINE TRAINING VIA ZOOM WITH PARTICIPATION REQUIRED (CAMERA ON & BREAKOUT ROOMS).
THIS TRAINING WILL NOT BE RECORDED.
DATE/TIME
THURSDAY, SEPTEMBER 8th & FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 9th 2022
9:00AM - 1:30PM U.S. Eastern Time both days
THIS IS A LIVE ONLINE TRAINING VIA ZOOM WITH PARTICIPATION REQUIRED (CAMERA ON & BREAKOUT ROOMS).
THIS TRAINING WILL NOT BE RECORDED.
MEET THE PRESENTERS
Alexine Thompson-de Benoit
Alexine is an ICEEFT Certified EFT Supervisor & Trainer, clinical psychologist, and licensed marriage and family therapist in Switzerland. As the EFT trainer for Switzerland, Alexine has a passionate interest in ADHD for several years learning to recognize and treat relationships affected by this disorder. By following the powerful EFT roadmap, she effectively helps these couples develop compassion for each other and an understanding that they are both victims of this diagnosis.
Alexine Thompson-de Benoit
Alexine is an ICEEFT Certified EFT Supervisor & Trainer, clinical psychologist, and licensed marriage and family therapist in Switzerland. As the EFT trainer for Switzerland, Alexine has a passionate interest in ADHD for several years learning to recognize and treat relationships affected by this disorder. By following the powerful EFT roadmap, she effectively helps these couples develop compassion for each other and an understanding that they are both victims of this diagnosis.
Ben Kneubühler
Ben is a psychotherapist, sexologist and ICEEFT Certified EFT Supervisor Candidate in Switzerland. Besides working with couples, he runs therapy groups and coaching sessions for ADHD diagnosed clients for many years. His passion is nurtured by the manifold capabilities and uniqueness such clients bring to our world.
Ben is a psychotherapist, sexologist and ICEEFT Certified EFT Supervisor Candidate in Switzerland. Besides working with couples, he runs therapy groups and coaching sessions for ADHD diagnosed clients for many years. His passion is nurtured by the manifold capabilities and uniqueness such clients bring to our world.
DESCRIPTION
As couples therapists we are often challenged with complex relationship dynamics. With the addition of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), in one or both partners, it becomes even more complicated to navigate the already intricate tango!
The South Florida Community for Emotionally Focused Therapy is excited to host this brand new ICEEFT-approved masterclass to address this obstacle.
ADHD is a condition that affects the executive functioning part of the brain, which manages our working memory, ability to focus, ability to plan, stay organized, finish what we started, and regulate emotions, among other things. Furthermore, for ADHD-affected individuals, those difficulties can be a fundamental impairment in many areas of life, including their relationships. In fact, there is scientific evidence that couples in which one or both parties have ADHD report less satisfying relationships than when compared to a couple without ADHD
It is not uncommon for individuals to be undiagnosed until later in adulthood. By this time, the relationship is often already profoundly affected. Their partners often have a litany of complaints including that their partner is being:
Given the ADHD partner’s challenges with being present, navigating executive function tasks, being predictable in their behaviors and emotions, it often compromises the safety and security of the attachment bond. As such, the non -ADHD partner reports feeling forgotten, unimportant as well as frustrated in their having to carry a more significant share of the load. Alternatively, the ADHD partner will describe themselves as the recipient of complaints, blame and criticism, which further effects the self-esteem and fragile connection. Recognizing the role ADHD plays in the relational dynamic is crucial to transform anger into empathy, develop strategies to manage its impact better, and stay united against it.
In this training, you will learn exactly how to assess the manifestations of ADHD and how they impact emotions and the romantic bond in a relationship. You will learn to track the ADHD-impacted cycle in a non-pathologizing way and look for the often-surprising primary emotions that are often well-hidden by ADHD partners. You will see video clips of ADHD-impacted couples sharing their felt experiences of the relationship with the therapist using standard EFT interventions such as tracking the cycle, empathically reflecting, validating, and assembling emotions.
This training will help therapists learn how to work with ADHD within the Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) framework through all three stages and the additional interventions necessary to help a couple not only cope but grow and thrive.
As couples therapists we are often challenged with complex relationship dynamics. With the addition of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), in one or both partners, it becomes even more complicated to navigate the already intricate tango!
The South Florida Community for Emotionally Focused Therapy is excited to host this brand new ICEEFT-approved masterclass to address this obstacle.
ADHD is a condition that affects the executive functioning part of the brain, which manages our working memory, ability to focus, ability to plan, stay organized, finish what we started, and regulate emotions, among other things. Furthermore, for ADHD-affected individuals, those difficulties can be a fundamental impairment in many areas of life, including their relationships. In fact, there is scientific evidence that couples in which one or both parties have ADHD report less satisfying relationships than when compared to a couple without ADHD
It is not uncommon for individuals to be undiagnosed until later in adulthood. By this time, the relationship is often already profoundly affected. Their partners often have a litany of complaints including that their partner is being:
- Inattentive
- Not present
- Disorganized
- Inconsistent
- Emotionally unstable
- Unreliable
Given the ADHD partner’s challenges with being present, navigating executive function tasks, being predictable in their behaviors and emotions, it often compromises the safety and security of the attachment bond. As such, the non -ADHD partner reports feeling forgotten, unimportant as well as frustrated in their having to carry a more significant share of the load. Alternatively, the ADHD partner will describe themselves as the recipient of complaints, blame and criticism, which further effects the self-esteem and fragile connection. Recognizing the role ADHD plays in the relational dynamic is crucial to transform anger into empathy, develop strategies to manage its impact better, and stay united against it.
In this training, you will learn exactly how to assess the manifestations of ADHD and how they impact emotions and the romantic bond in a relationship. You will learn to track the ADHD-impacted cycle in a non-pathologizing way and look for the often-surprising primary emotions that are often well-hidden by ADHD partners. You will see video clips of ADHD-impacted couples sharing their felt experiences of the relationship with the therapist using standard EFT interventions such as tracking the cycle, empathically reflecting, validating, and assembling emotions.
This training will help therapists learn how to work with ADHD within the Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) framework through all three stages and the additional interventions necessary to help a couple not only cope but grow and thrive.
Program Objectives:
- Identify the symptoms of ADHD and the way the ADHD brain functions
- Recognize the manifestations of ADHD in the couple’s dynamic and its impact on romantic relationships
- Demonstrate how partners externalize the problem and understand the role ADHD has in their cycle
- Recognize primary emotions typical in couples impacted by ADHD
- Describe the principles of EFT to work towards de-escalation while weaving psycho-education and normalizing information into interventions
- Identify the EFT principles through all three EFT treatment stages when ADHD is present, and what additional interventions are helpful and resourceful to the couple.
GENERAL SCHEDULE (ALL TIMES IN EASTERN TIME ZONE/U.S.)
(DAY 1) THURSDAY, SEPT. 8
9:00a-9:15a Introduction
9:15a-9:30a Video examples - definition and symptoms
9:30a-10:00a Models to explain ADHD, including neurobiology
10:00a-10:30a Emotion regulation and effects on relationship
10:30a-10:45a Self-Reflection on understanding of ADHD and integration into participants knowledge base
10:45a-11:00a [Break]
11:00a-11:30a Video examples and case presentation
11:30a-12:00p Small group breakout session on observations
12:00p-12:15p [Break]
12:30p-1:15p Case example with symptoms as triggers
1:15p-1:30p Wrap-up Q & A
(DAY 2) FRIDAY, SEPT. 9
9:00a-9:15a Introduction
9:15a-10:30a Video examples - perception of the ADHD partner; experiential exercise
10:30a-10:45a Video: enactment with ADHD withdrawer
10:45a-11:00a [Break]
11:00a-11:30a Small group breakout session on reaction of non-ADHD partner
11:30a-12:15p Reframing ADHD in attachment terms
12:00p-12:15p [Break]
12:15p-12:30p Treatment pitfalls to avoid; grieving and gifts
1:00-1:15p Specific strategies for stage 3 EFT work
1:15p-1:30p Wrap-up; Q & A
(DAY 1) THURSDAY, SEPT. 8
9:00a-9:15a Introduction
9:15a-9:30a Video examples - definition and symptoms
9:30a-10:00a Models to explain ADHD, including neurobiology
10:00a-10:30a Emotion regulation and effects on relationship
10:30a-10:45a Self-Reflection on understanding of ADHD and integration into participants knowledge base
10:45a-11:00a [Break]
11:00a-11:30a Video examples and case presentation
11:30a-12:00p Small group breakout session on observations
12:00p-12:15p [Break]
12:30p-1:15p Case example with symptoms as triggers
1:15p-1:30p Wrap-up Q & A
(DAY 2) FRIDAY, SEPT. 9
9:00a-9:15a Introduction
9:15a-10:30a Video examples - perception of the ADHD partner; experiential exercise
10:30a-10:45a Video: enactment with ADHD withdrawer
10:45a-11:00a [Break]
11:00a-11:30a Small group breakout session on reaction of non-ADHD partner
11:30a-12:15p Reframing ADHD in attachment terms
12:00p-12:15p [Break]
12:15p-12:30p Treatment pitfalls to avoid; grieving and gifts
1:00-1:15p Specific strategies for stage 3 EFT work
1:15p-1:30p Wrap-up; Q & A
TARGET AUDIENCE
Mental Health Professionals, Social Workers, Psychologists; must be licensed (or licensed-eligible) mental health professional
LEVEL
Intermediate
PRE-REQUISITE
Required - EFT Externship
Recommended - EFT core skills
CEs
8 CEs ARE AVAILABLE AND INCLUDED IN YOUR REGISTRATION FEE FOR THE FOLLOWING PROFESSIONS ONLY THROUGH CE-CLASSES.COM:
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This course is NOT available for NBCC credit
This training does not offer ASWB ACE credit to social workers.
Florida Certification Board
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The Texas Board of Social Work Examiners – CE-Classes.com meets the requirements for acceptable continuing education
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Massachusetts Authorization Number: (TBD)
Ohio Counselor, Social Worker and Marriage and Family Therapist Board – Provider # RCST031201
New York Social Work Board – CE-Classes.com is recognized by the New York State Education
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The California Board of Registered Nursing. CEP 15647 Expires 11/30/2022.
Please Note: Licensing Boards change regulations often, and while we attempt to stay abreast of their most recent changes, if you have questions or concerns about this course meeting your specific board’s approval, we recommend you contact your board directly to obtain a ruling. You may also check CE-classes.com website to see if you r state and license is listed. You are ultimately responsible for verifying all information about CEs on this website and the CE-classes.com website with your state's licensing board.
Ada Assistance: This workshop is compliant with the American Disabilities Act. Please contact us at admin@southfloridaeft.com if special accommodations are required at least 2 weeks prior to the start of the training.
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There is no commercial support or conflicts of interest for this program.
REGISTRATION FEES
$175 early sign up (before Aug. 1st)
$195 regular
$165 specialty discount (F/T graduate students, active/former military, pre-licensed interns, ICEEFT certified trainers or supervisors/sups-in-training)
DEI Scholarship Application
*Apply for one of our diversity/equity/inclusion scholarships! We provide various amounts of DEI scholarships. These scholarships are strictly reserved for those who work in an agency, non-profit, or community mental health setting and/or predominantly with minority/marginalized populations. You may read the full qualifying criteria on the application. Deadline to apply is August 1, 2022.
The number of participants are limited and this will fill up quickly!
* CEs are included through our program co-sponsor CE-classes.com! Instructions for obtaining CEs will be provided to those attending the full live training.
F.A.Q
Q. Will this training be recorded?
A. NO, this is a LIVE ONLY training and will not be recorded. Use of any recording device is strictly prohibited.
Q. Can I attend if I will miss some portions due to conflicts, emergencies, my time zone, etc.
A. Yes, attend what you can, we are happy to have you. Just note that you will not be eligible for CEs if you miss portions of this training.
Q. Are CEs available?
A. Yes, 8CEs for those who attend the full training LIVE (camera on with participation in breakout rooms). We verify attendance using the Zoom log as it will give us the number of hours you attended live. If you do not need CEs, but only need documentation of attendance, you will need to obtain it the same way as if you are obtaining CEs. You will receive an email post-training for instructions to obtain your CE certificate (or certificate of attendance) via CE-Classes.com. There is no extra charge for CEs...the cost is included in your registration fee!
Q. Will there be breakout rooms in this training?
A. Yes, there will likely be one breakout room section on each day of the training. If there is someone in the training you do not wish to be put in a room with, there will be opportunity to let us know and we will do our best not to place you in the same room.
Q. When will we get the Zoom link and training materials?
A. These items are sent out only 1 - 2 days prior to the training. Trainers often wish to tweak and finalize their material up to the last minute and we want to give them time to do so. If you do not get anything 24 hours prior to the start of the training, check your spam folder first. Email will at times come from EventBrite directly as well as SFCEFT (admin@southfloridaeft.com). If it's in spam, move it to your inbox and be sure to mark the emails "not spam."
If you still don't have anything, shoot us an email at admin@southfloridaeft.com.
Q. What if I signed up but then I can't attend?
A. The refund policy is below.
Q. Will this training be recorded?
A. NO, this is a LIVE ONLY training and will not be recorded. Use of any recording device is strictly prohibited.
Q. Can I attend if I will miss some portions due to conflicts, emergencies, my time zone, etc.
A. Yes, attend what you can, we are happy to have you. Just note that you will not be eligible for CEs if you miss portions of this training.
Q. Are CEs available?
A. Yes, 8CEs for those who attend the full training LIVE (camera on with participation in breakout rooms). We verify attendance using the Zoom log as it will give us the number of hours you attended live. If you do not need CEs, but only need documentation of attendance, you will need to obtain it the same way as if you are obtaining CEs. You will receive an email post-training for instructions to obtain your CE certificate (or certificate of attendance) via CE-Classes.com. There is no extra charge for CEs...the cost is included in your registration fee!
Q. Will there be breakout rooms in this training?
A. Yes, there will likely be one breakout room section on each day of the training. If there is someone in the training you do not wish to be put in a room with, there will be opportunity to let us know and we will do our best not to place you in the same room.
Q. When will we get the Zoom link and training materials?
A. These items are sent out only 1 - 2 days prior to the training. Trainers often wish to tweak and finalize their material up to the last minute and we want to give them time to do so. If you do not get anything 24 hours prior to the start of the training, check your spam folder first. Email will at times come from EventBrite directly as well as SFCEFT (admin@southfloridaeft.com). If it's in spam, move it to your inbox and be sure to mark the emails "not spam."
If you still don't have anything, shoot us an email at admin@southfloridaeft.com.
Q. What if I signed up but then I can't attend?
A. The refund policy is below.
CANCELLATION/REFUND POLICY*
Less than 7 days notice - no refund, no exceptions
7+ days notice, full refund minus $40 administrative fee
* Refund amounts are based on our fixed costs and contractual obligations. When you enroll, it is with the understanding that you will attend. If an "Act of G-d" or nature requires SFCEFT to cancel or postpone this event, we will apply your fee to the make-up date. If you still request a refund, it will be provided to you minus the administrative fee. If you qualify for a scholarship, due to limited spots, please notify us as soon as possible if you are unable to attend so that a spot can open up for someone else. All refunds must be requested in writing via email to admin@southfloridaeft.com.
QUESTIONS/CONTACT*
admin@southfloridaeft.com
*any inquiries regarding training details, registration, payment, refunds, website issues, etc.
Less than 7 days notice - no refund, no exceptions
7+ days notice, full refund minus $40 administrative fee
* Refund amounts are based on our fixed costs and contractual obligations. When you enroll, it is with the understanding that you will attend. If an "Act of G-d" or nature requires SFCEFT to cancel or postpone this event, we will apply your fee to the make-up date. If you still request a refund, it will be provided to you minus the administrative fee. If you qualify for a scholarship, due to limited spots, please notify us as soon as possible if you are unable to attend so that a spot can open up for someone else. All refunds must be requested in writing via email to admin@southfloridaeft.com.
QUESTIONS/CONTACT*
admin@southfloridaeft.com
*any inquiries regarding training details, registration, payment, refunds, website issues, etc.